sindi umuganga yewe sindi numujyanama wubuzima ndacyeka ntari ninararibonye gusa
ndumusore nkabandi batari impanzi nifuje kuvuga kukibazo cyabana batoya (aha ndibanda
kubo mumashuli yisumbuye gusa nabandi birabareba) bakomeza gutwara inda sitateganyijwe
buri wese afite uko yumva ibinu muri society tubamo gusa abenshi tugira bashiki bacu
nabatanabagira bagira babyarababo babakobwa bari muricyo kigero, ngiye kuvuga kumpamvu
no kubibazo wakwibazo ko bituma izi mpanuka (zo kubyara utabishaakaga) zihoraho kdi
sizicike, kurijye ikibazo sukubyara ikibazo nukubyara utabishakaga
icya mbere twakibaza duti ese ko nubwo ingaruka direct ziza kumukobwa uba ugiye gutwita ayo mezi icyenda umuhungu we aba abishaka gutera iyo nda cyangwa nawe biramungwirira? sindibuvugire abahungu bose kuko sinzi uko bateye nuko bameze gusa twese turabanu la majorite za case zibaho abahungu basaba abakobwa gukuramo inda bivuzeko nabo bibangwirira baba batifuza kubyara
icya kabiri, kuumukobwa we uba ufite inshingano direct zogutwita iyo agize imana akamenya ko yasamye afata umwanzuro akemera kubyara cg kuyikuramo, sinzi umubare mwishi aruwuhe but imande zose zirahari.
dore impamvu numva zituma abana babakobwa batwara inda
1-kutisobanukirwa : birababaje kuba abakobwa hari abatiyizi abatazi imitere yumukobwaa, we icyo abona arimihango iza ikamara iminsi ingahe ihashira, wamubaza uti byibuze
nsobanurira inzira bicamo kugirango iyo mihango ize ati shwi , uti se basi uzi igihe wasamira inda? undi ati oya ukamubaza uti se uri sugi ati shwi da bivuzeko kuba atarasama just nuko akoresha agakingirizo cg nigihe cye kitaragera, niba urumukobwa ukaba udasobanukiwe imikorere yimisemburo yawe ukaba utazi kubara igihe uzagira mumihango ukaba utanazi igihe wasamira ufite amahirwe yogusama.
2- kutagira icyo witaho: niba utitaye kubuzima bwawe ngo uhe ibifite agaciro agaciro bikwiye nabwo nikibazo cyatuma utamenya icyerekezo ujyamo
3- kumvako udashobora gukora imibonano muza bitsina: iyi nimwe munzira abakobwa batwariramo inda kenshi kumvako utakoraa sex nukwishuka abatarayikora aha baseka but abayikoze barabyumva icyo nicyo gituma iyi arimpamvu ituma abana basama batabishakaga, umukobwa ati jye sinabikora nzategereza umunsi wubukwe (bibaho cyane rwose gusa sinzi niba umubare munini wabakora amakwe ubu aramasugi), ukamubaza se uti ufite boyfrd ati yego but twe ibyo situbijyamo, nkwifurije amahirwe gusa uri muri danger kuko ushobora kuzasama umunsi wambere ubikoze.
4-iyo umuhungu yagambiriye kuyigutera: ibi nabyo bibaho harabahungu baba bashaka abana cg kurongora maze agahitamo kuyigutera kugirango gahunda zihute cg umuhe uwo mwana. iyo ugize amahirwe agushyira mumago nubwo waba ukiri umwana utaraba mature mumutwe.
5- umuhungu winjiji; byise umuhungu winjiji kuko atazi icyo agushakaho, nigute umuntu agutera inda then akagusaba kuyikuramo? bivuzeko hari ibintu bibiri atazi gutandukanya ko ashaka, arashaka sex nta codomo ariko sashaka kugutera inda ubu nubujiji rero butuma atera ibuye rimwe rigafata inyoni ebyiri, harinzira wayungurura ukabona iyo sex ushaka kdi udateye inda
6-kumvako abantu bakora sex aribivumwe: niba urumukobwa ukaba ubona abakobwa cg abahungu bakora sex ukabita indaya cg abambari bashitani ufite ikibazo cyo kudasobanukirwa
gusa ntanukunu wasobanukirwa utarabikora , ufite amahirwe yuko umunsi wambere uzabikora uzatwara inda nushaka uzabe warakoze ubukwe uzatwara inda gusa yateganyijwe
icya mbere twakibaza duti ese ko nubwo ingaruka direct ziza kumukobwa uba ugiye gutwita ayo mezi icyenda umuhungu we aba abishaka gutera iyo nda cyangwa nawe biramungwirira? sindibuvugire abahungu bose kuko sinzi uko bateye nuko bameze gusa twese turabanu la majorite za case zibaho abahungu basaba abakobwa gukuramo inda bivuzeko nabo bibangwirira baba batifuza kubyara
icya kabiri, kuumukobwa we uba ufite inshingano direct zogutwita iyo agize imana akamenya ko yasamye afata umwanzuro akemera kubyara cg kuyikuramo, sinzi umubare mwishi aruwuhe but imande zose zirahari.
dore impamvu numva zituma abana babakobwa batwara inda
1-kutisobanukirwa : birababaje kuba abakobwa hari abatiyizi abatazi imitere yumukobwaa, we icyo abona arimihango iza ikamara iminsi ingahe ihashira, wamubaza uti byibuze
nsobanurira inzira bicamo kugirango iyo mihango ize ati shwi , uti se basi uzi igihe wasamira inda? undi ati oya ukamubaza uti se uri sugi ati shwi da bivuzeko kuba atarasama just nuko akoresha agakingirizo cg nigihe cye kitaragera, niba urumukobwa ukaba udasobanukiwe imikorere yimisemburo yawe ukaba utazi kubara igihe uzagira mumihango ukaba utanazi igihe wasamira ufite amahirwe yogusama.
2- kutagira icyo witaho: niba utitaye kubuzima bwawe ngo uhe ibifite agaciro agaciro bikwiye nabwo nikibazo cyatuma utamenya icyerekezo ujyamo
3- kumvako udashobora gukora imibonano muza bitsina: iyi nimwe munzira abakobwa batwariramo inda kenshi kumvako utakoraa sex nukwishuka abatarayikora aha baseka but abayikoze barabyumva icyo nicyo gituma iyi arimpamvu ituma abana basama batabishakaga, umukobwa ati jye sinabikora nzategereza umunsi wubukwe (bibaho cyane rwose gusa sinzi niba umubare munini wabakora amakwe ubu aramasugi), ukamubaza se uti ufite boyfrd ati yego but twe ibyo situbijyamo, nkwifurije amahirwe gusa uri muri danger kuko ushobora kuzasama umunsi wambere ubikoze.
4-iyo umuhungu yagambiriye kuyigutera: ibi nabyo bibaho harabahungu baba bashaka abana cg kurongora maze agahitamo kuyigutera kugirango gahunda zihute cg umuhe uwo mwana. iyo ugize amahirwe agushyira mumago nubwo waba ukiri umwana utaraba mature mumutwe.
5- umuhungu winjiji; byise umuhungu winjiji kuko atazi icyo agushakaho, nigute umuntu agutera inda then akagusaba kuyikuramo? bivuzeko hari ibintu bibiri atazi gutandukanya ko ashaka, arashaka sex nta codomo ariko sashaka kugutera inda ubu nubujiji rero butuma atera ibuye rimwe rigafata inyoni ebyiri, harinzira wayungurura ukabona iyo sex ushaka kdi udateye inda
6-kumvako abantu bakora sex aribivumwe: niba urumukobwa ukaba ubona abakobwa cg abahungu bakora sex ukabita indaya cg abambari bashitani ufite ikibazo cyo kudasobanukirwa
gusa ntanukunu wasobanukirwa utarabikora , ufite amahirwe yuko umunsi wambere uzabikora uzatwara inda nushaka uzabe warakoze ubukwe uzatwara inda gusa yateganyijwe
7- kutigira kumakosa yabakubanjirije: urumukobwa cg umuhungu uzi abandi bagenzi bawe
bahuye nicyo kibazo ese harinumwe wegereye utamwita indaya cg icyomanzi ngo umubaze uko
byagenze wumve ko nawe atariho ugana? u never know wabona etape yanyuma yayitwariyemo
wenda kuyigeraho
8-isoni: isoni nikibazo gikomeye gituma abantu duhora tungwa murwobo rumwe, ntago byumvikana ukunu umuntu agira isoni zokuba yavuga cg yaganiraho nabandi kubyerekeye sex ariko akayikora, maybe nuko uyikora tutakureba but nutwaarinda tuzaba sure ko wabikoze cyereka nutera ikirenge mucya bikira mariya, ganiriza ababizi bakubwire uko byabagendekeye
9- kutemera ko washukwa paka ukoreshwejwe imibonano: niba wumva uri strong rero make sure ko uriyo, ufite nibyo wibwira bibigaragaza kuriyo kuko ntanwari itaravuye kurugamba. ntiba utarashukwa wavugako bitabaho but niba byarakubayeho uremerankwa nanjye
10- icyanyuma nukudasobanukirwa nabahungu: kudasobanukirwa uko abahungu bateye bizatuma ugwa mucyuzi ukita ikiziba, abahungu siduteye kimwe nabakobwa ibyo mwifuza sibyo twifuza ibyo iyo utabizi wakibeshya ko tumeze kimwe ushiduka wategereje imihango wahebye.
all of that is my opinion niba hari ibyo tutemerankwa ibyo bibaho kdi byanahozeho, kubakobwa inama nabaha niba ntacyo ukora ngo wirinde gusama igisigaye ubwo namahirwe nigihe
8-isoni: isoni nikibazo gikomeye gituma abantu duhora tungwa murwobo rumwe, ntago byumvikana ukunu umuntu agira isoni zokuba yavuga cg yaganiraho nabandi kubyerekeye sex ariko akayikora, maybe nuko uyikora tutakureba but nutwaarinda tuzaba sure ko wabikoze cyereka nutera ikirenge mucya bikira mariya, ganiriza ababizi bakubwire uko byabagendekeye
9- kutemera ko washukwa paka ukoreshwejwe imibonano: niba wumva uri strong rero make sure ko uriyo, ufite nibyo wibwira bibigaragaza kuriyo kuko ntanwari itaravuye kurugamba. ntiba utarashukwa wavugako bitabaho but niba byarakubayeho uremerankwa nanjye
10- icyanyuma nukudasobanukirwa nabahungu: kudasobanukirwa uko abahungu bateye bizatuma ugwa mucyuzi ukita ikiziba, abahungu siduteye kimwe nabakobwa ibyo mwifuza sibyo twifuza ibyo iyo utabizi wakibeshya ko tumeze kimwe ushiduka wategereje imihango wahebye.
all of that is my opinion niba hari ibyo tutemerankwa ibyo bibaho kdi byanahozeho, kubakobwa inama nabaha niba ntacyo ukora ngo wirinde gusama igisigaye ubwo namahirwe nigihe
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